Growing up, I have faced many problems and I still face many. In my village, there are around 150 houses. Back in 2002 and 03, When I was studying in primary school, there were only 5 girls in the government school in my village along with me. By the time I reached class 5, four of them got married. After that, I used to go to school alone. Slowly, I also felt like I did not want to continue studying. I started spending my time collecting firewood in the forest and doing other chores. I helped with housework in an attempt to not get scolded by my parents for skipping school.
It was during the board examination time for class 8th students, that my perspective changed. In my village’s school, some children from another village had come to give exams. All of them were boys, and only one was a girl. Looking at her inspired me and I started attending school regularly again. And I started studying more diligently.
After I passed inter (class 12th) people of the village used to ask me “When will you get married?” I used to tell them I do not want to marry. “Girls who say they will not marry are the first to elope with boys” was the reply I always got. I felt sad when I heard such things and I thought to myself that things can only change by getting educated and getting a job.